Finding a good transgender chatroom is hard because no one understands what everyone else in the room is after … and everyone has an agenda. Before my egg cracked and I decided to “all in”, I lived a double-life. A straight-acting man in the daylight world and a woman on the prowl for attention in the digital world. We’re going back 20 years here and the web was a different place. Among other places, I hung out at Bianca’s Smut Shack – a chat site so notorious that it has its own Wikipedia page. Quite an achievement when you consider how many hundreds of millions of Web 1.0 sites are gone and forgotten.

Anyway, if you are looking for “your people” online, you may well still Google “transgender chatroom”. Here are a few of the search results you might get.

Eight transgender chatroom reviews

  • TvChix – a retro experience (looks straight from 2005), but somehow has a very active user-base of crossdressers, trans fetishists and chasers. Mostly British and over 40, but there are a fair few internationals and more than a few younger people too. Only the “Looking To Meet” room is lively, but I’m not sure if anyone here ever actually meets up. Sex chat is common. A positive vibe, but NOT a place for trans support or education.
  • Transgender Chat City – not a chatroom despite calling itself one. It’s a data-harvesting dating app for chasers of transwomen … and transwomen looking to take advantage of chasers. If that’s your thing, go for it. 
  • We Are Her – also not a chatroom despite calling itself one. It’s a queer femme social app. It has a strong lesbian focus, as is natural, but offers trans chat and bisexual chat too. Seems to also target African-American women. App wouldn’t download for me, so I really have no idea. 
  • Tochato – A general chat service with hundreds of rooms across all sorts of topics. The transgender rooms are all wastelands of unanswered messages like “ANY TRANS GIRL? MSG ME”, “Curious want to try Chicago” and “StaceySUXXX: Nylon slut! Ready to part-AYY! Open and gaping. Right now. Message me… Please.”
  • Transgender Support – Few users, but those few are good people. Top-notch engagement and discussion. No hookups. No sex. No chasers. My chats here were excellent and thought-provoking.
  • Taimi – Bills itself as the “the World’s Biggest Transgender Chat Platform”, but it’s just a failed dating app. Forget it.
  • Transgender Talk via Chatzy – Dead and depressing. All the messages are just automated announcements of people entering, finding the room empty and then leaving. Over and over. Hundreds of times.
  • Transgender Heaven – Once again, not a chatroom despite billing itself as one in order to game the SEO system. It’s actually a paid service, with a free “Basic” membership. It’s actually a message board with some pretty good articles. The sign-up process is tedious and old school, interface is confusing. Steep learning curve and I just wasn’t that interested.

Verdict